I’m trying to rise above dichotomous thinking of all or nothing. Perhaps it’s possible to adhere to “everything in moderation” and “to thine own self be true.” There is a lot of gradient between dropping people completely or being around them all the time. Part of me doesn’t want to waste my time on the people that cause me to feel badly about my light. It takes too much energy to get back to homeostasis. It’s a heart thing and the heart matters. Another part feels the need to bring light to darkness. Therein lies the dilemma for which moderation can provide the answer. Above all, I know that this life is fleeting and temporary, and while I don’t like wasting my time, I also feel the responsibility to help guide people to the light.
Place Your Plant in the Correct Amount of Light
We have been given free-will and choice to choose the amount of light in life that allows us to grow.
People, like plants, require differing amounts of light to grow. If you give some plants too much light, they will die.
Others in that same light actually thrive and grow. That’s where the “to thine own self be true” part comes in. Perhaps some can only handle so much light, while others like me thrive in bright light. We tend to give what we like. However, one of my children once told me that while I seem to get energy from large groups of people, too many people actually drain their energy. Now, that’s food for thought! How much light can or should you give? How much light can you handle? How much light do you require? I guess these are questions that we all must eventually ponder.
I, just as everyone else, am a unique creation of God, endowed with gifts and strengths to share with the world. As a poet, author, speaker, coach, and trainer, the gifts of a loud voice, high energy, and a sense of responsibility to share and inspire what I’ve learned, assist greatly in being able to do what I was born to do. These same gifts while appropriate on stage, might not be in other settings. Other people have their unique gifts and purposes that do not require the same tools that I was blessed with. The great thing is that this world is filled with diversity and there is a space and place for us all.