Tests Are Tools for Growth

All the lessons, tests, and experiences of the past have made you who you are today.  Your perspective affects your outcome.  Choose to see that life is on purpose. You won’t learn from your adversities if you see them only as bad luck, negative, or fate.

Tests may be your vehicles for growth so face them, learn from them, and grow. Don’t hate the messenger, instead focus on the message.

What can you learn about your current adversity?  Your tests today will strengthen you for tomorrow, so don’t begrudge your adversities.

 

Change ONLY Occurs in The Current Moment!

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BREAKING NEWS!!!  Stop waiting for the world to change. When you change, your world changes. Change ONLY occurs in the CURRENT MOMENT, not in the past and not in the future. The most important moment in your life is right now.  Treat it like a jewel; love it; value it; and make the most of it.  To WAIT is to lose valuable opportunities to reach your dreams. Remember yesterday is gone.  Tomorrow is not promised.

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The Power Is in The Moment

All we really have for sure is HERE and NOW!  If you want tomorrow to be better, change something today.  If you want your memories or past to be better, change something today.  Today has 86,400 moments or opportunities to change your current reality, so make the most of them. Monitor your moments like you would your money.  Know where you spend them. If you lose some; figure out how to not do that in the future.  We are blessed with more when we appreciate more.  Appreciate your time and life and enjoy it to the fullest.

I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires.   To find more about me, check out my promo sheet or visit  my website.

Did You Put the Big Rocks in First?

Your Health and Sanity Are Big Rocks

Steven Covey used to talk about the importance of taking care of the most important  things in our lives first.  He used the analogy of filling a jar with big rocks, pebbles, sand, and finally water.  He talked about how important the order in which you put things into the jar determined how much could fit in the jar. Most people are busy and overwhelmed these days with stuff (some important, others not so important).

The big rocks represent the most important things in our lives that give us meaning, joy, and purpose. The small pebbles, sand, and water represent the day-to-day duties, distractions, and things we spend our time on.  Covey suggests that if you first fill the jar up with sand, water, and small stones, then it will be hard if not impossible to get the big rocks in later.

Put the Big Rocks in First

However if you have your priorities straight and put the big rocks in first, then the pebbles, then the sand, then the water, you’ll be able to get a lot more in the jar.  We all lead busy complicated lives and we’ve got to decide what our big rocks, pebbles, sand, and water are.  One thing is for sure, your health is a big rock.  Put it in first.  In my life management system, I discuss 10 big rocks.   They are discussed in my ‘On Track, On Fire, and On Purpose‘ book

I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires.   To find more about me, check out my promo sheet or visit  my website.

WARNING!!! For independent thinkers only. Do not read this if you have a closed mind, and you wish it to stay that way.

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Listening to National Public Radio while you’re driving can be hazardous.  Once again I almost drove off the road. The reporter was talking about a fourteen year old girl in Pakistan, hunted down and shot by the Pakistani Taliban for the offense of going to school. I was enraged. In spite of myself, all manner of hostile thoughts filled my mind. Since then, I’ve been following the story and the remarkable courage being shown by girls, women, and men in Pakistan.

Then the cartoons started popping up on my Facebook page. I began to feel uncomfortable with what I was seeing. What they all had in common was the juxtaposition of a girl in hijab with some school-related objects and a Middle Eastern/Muslim man (sometimes explicitly Taliban and sometimes not) reacting to her in fear. There was a time when I would have found these cartoons poignant and witty. That…

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Give People a Reason to Support You

Support Comes Naturally When You Get Serious!

How can you realistically and honestly expect others to believe in you and support your endeavors when you have not demonstrated by your persistent and faithful action, enthusiasm, commitment, and focus that you truly believe in your own dreams.

Faith attracts others while desperation and doubt detract.

The Creator, His Messengers, the universe, teachers, friends, mentors, angels, and even strangers are ready to help you if you would only ask and believe. Inspiration and enthusiasm come naturally when you get serious about your goals and are doing something about them.  Realizing that your amazing destiny is within your reach is of the utmost urgency; so stake your claim now.  The world is in desperate need of the contribution that you alone were created and destined to offer.

I’m Barbara Talley, the poet who speaks and inspires.  To find out more about me check out: What Does Barbara Do? or visit  my website.