My mouth dropped open. I was speechless. I couldn’t believe the words I was hearing over the phone. I was thinking about rescheduling my lunch appointment for the second time, but now I was the one being canceled. I’d rescheduled our lunch from the previous week to the following week thinking it would be better, but it wasn’t. After all, it was only one week. The decision was perplexing me so I decided to just call my friend, explain the situation, and we would make the decision together. But, now it is too late. The woman on the phone was telling me that my lunch companion had died suddenly the day after our canceled lunch. This happened over a year ago but I remember it as if it were yesterday. I would never see my friend again and that opportunity would now be loss forever. I couldn’t help but think about how precious time was, and that the only time we really have is now. It is only in the current moment that we can count on and live. This incident brings new meaning to the saying, “Don’t put off for tomorrow what you can do today.”
What’s the Lesson?
I had to ask myself, “What is the lesson I am to learn from this?” In every situation it is important to learn the lesson, otherwise our tests are repeated. Upon reflection I realized the importance of not taking anything or anyone for granted. I learned that what we do in the moment creates our past and helps us to realize the futures we dream of. The past is gone and tomorrow is not promised to anyone. I needed to focus on that statement, “Tomorrow is not promised.” All we really have is here and now.
So, what are putting off right now, that really should be done today? Better still, if you knew you wouldn’t have tomorrow, “What would you be doing differently today?” What would happen if you really lived like there would be no tomorrow. What would change?
I’m Barbara Talley, the poet who speaks and inspires. To find out more about me check out: What Does Barbara Do? or visit my website.