2. WIN: Improve on Your Own Personal Best.

Practice Makes Perfect

In the old definition of winning, we have to define a target to compete against and overtake that person in order to feel like we’ve won.  What kind of world is that?   Why can’t we just compete against our own personal best?  The answer is, we can! No one starts off  ‘perfect‘ so that doesn’t matter so much.  Just  go ahead and start because it is true that ‘practice  makes perfect.’  You’ve got to start somewhere.  Why not focus your energies on being the best you, doing the best you can, enjoying the ride, and competing only against  your own personal best record.   Strive everyday to “be better” than you were and you will continually grow.  And if constant and steady improvement is not winning, I don’t know what is.

Focus Your Energies on Being Your Best

Why not decide right now to go after whatever it is you truly want that brings real meaning into your life and not worry about who is ahead of you or behind you?  The more races I run, the more worn the paths will become and the easier and faster subsequent races will be. What if your goal were to become a little better every single day?  Wouldn’t that be a lot less stressful, contentious, and conflicting?  So get in the race to improve yourself and ignore the naysayers on the sidelines.  And remember, “You’re winning as long as you are in the race.”

I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires.   To find more about me, visit:  www.thepoetspeaks.com

1. WIN: Learn Something New and Change Your Brain.

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  1. Learn Something New and Change Your Brain. Every time you learn something new, you win and you win big!  Recent neuroscience discoveries have uncovered new information about our brains.  Every new experience changes our brain!  The old science operated under the belief that after age four our brains were already formed but the new science of neuroplasticity is causing neuro scientists to rethink everything they thought they knew.
  2. The following is an excerpt from a  fascinating article,  by the Practical Memory Institute,  ‘Introduction to Neuroplasticity:

“Groundbreaking new research suggests that, beyond modifying pathways and forming new ones between existing neurons, the human brain is even able to generate entirely new brain cells. While this neural regeneration was long believed to be impossible after age three or four, research now shows that new neurons can develop late into the life span, even into the golden years of age 70 and beyond. Thus, the old adage “use it or lose it” is brought soundly home. If one’s brain is constantly challenged by and engaged with a variety of stimulations and new experiences, while also exposed regularly to that which it already knows, it is better able to retain its adaptive flexibility, regenerative capacity, and remarkable efficiency throughout life.”

If you prefer to watch and learn, check out these Youtube videos, Neuroscience of emotions and Norman Doidge on the brain and neuroplasticity.  Now that’s what I call winning!  Your brain is ready, capable, and waiting to catapult you to success.

I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires.   To find more about me, visit:  www.thepoetspeaks.com

3 Ways to Always Win Big

Nobody Likes Losing

That’s right! It’s game day and time to get your game on! Let’s face it; nobody likes losing, so much so, that many refuse to even get into the race of life.  (Note: I define the “race” as any meaningful goal, wish, desire, or passion that defines what you want out of life.)

Meanwhile the ‘watchers’  vicariously just watch life go by and waste their precious existence watching others (via unlimited connectivity to media) live the lives they wish they had the courage to pursue.  Perhaps that’s why Americans spend as much as five hours a day watching television and the insatiable addiction to following the lives of celebrities.

What grand ideal are you putting off pursuing?

What great goal is languishing because you are procrastinating?  What wonderful wish is remaining, well … still just a wish.  Come on, don’t just watch the race of life, get in a lane, any lane! Most successful people will tell you, that most of the rush is in the race, not in the finish, and definitely not on the sidelines.  Many experience a, “Now what?” after they’ve achieved a goal.  But the real excitement was in the start, in the perseverance, and finally in the moments before and after the finish.

How Do You Know You Will Win?

So, what is it that you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t started yet for fear of losing?  Claim it now and go after it knowing that you will win.  How do you know you will win?  Because you are allowed to change the rules! Read my next three posts on three simple rules to get you started: 1) Redefine what winning means, 2) Improve on your own personal best, and 3) Learn something new and change your brain.

I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires.   To find more about me, visit:  www.thepoetspeaks.com

Manage Your Energy and Manage Your Time

Let’s face it, we’d all like or could benefit from having a little more time in our lives.  Unfortunately, no one gets “extra” time. We are all confined to the same 24 hours, no more, no less, but there is a solution.  We will feel like we’ve got more time when we  rescue some of our wasted hours and redistribute or redirect those hours to fulfilling goals and dreams that matter more to us.

Our accomplishments are dependent upon our energy. No matter how much you desire something, you cannot do it if you have no energy.

Click on the link to read about twelve tools toCreate More Energy from my book, TalleyUP, The Excitement of Value-based Living.

Manage Your Interruptions and Manage Your Time

Did you know that knowledge workers are interrupted or switched topics about every eleven minutes or that  workers visit an average of 50 websites a day, or that in the United States, more than $650 billion a year in productivity is lost because of unnecessary interruptions?  These are the statistics according to experts, Dr. Gloria Mark, Rescue Time, Basex, and others.

How many times are you interrupted each day?

Basex reported that 28% of a workers interruptions are not important or urgent.  It seems that we barely start a project or task before the phone rings, someone pops in, or we are notified of an email.   Most of us have learned to just attend to these interruptions as a normal way of life, but at what cost?  Have you ever started to do something and then couldn’t remember what you were doing?  Or, have you ever stopped what you were doing to take a call and then forgot what you were doing before the call?  Have you ever set out to send an email and then clicked on so many links that you forgot to complete your original task?  Well, you are not alone.  There are no shortages of interruptions in our lives, from technology, to people, to tasks, all begging for our attention.

Institute a Quiet Hour

While the problem is complicated, one solution is to have a “Quiet Hour” in which you manage the interruptions.  The nature of our jobs does not allow us to realistically turn off all communications during the day, but an hour is manageable and reasonable.  Alec Mackenzie in her book, The Time Trap states that, “on average, a person gets done in one quiet hour what would take “three normal hours.”

A New York Times article titled, “Lost in E-Mail, Tech Firms Face Self-Made Beast,” states that: “A typical information worker who sits at a computer all day turns to his e-mail program more than 50 times and uses instant messaging 77 times, according to one measure by RescueTime, a company that analyzes computer habits.  The company, which draws its data from 40,000 people who have tracking software on their computers, found that on average the worker also stops at 40 Web sites over the course of the day.  The fractured attention comes at a cost. In the United States, more than $650 billion a year in productivity is lost because of unnecessary interruptions, predominately mundane matters, according to Basex. ”

Save Your State

One of the problems with being interrupted is the time wasted trying to return to the formerly interrupted task.   So one hot tip for saving time until you learn how to manage the interruptions is to make a written note of what your next step was to be.  This will help you to resume your task quicker.  Also, push yourself to work on a task for a certain period of time.  If the average is a few minutes, try to increase your own personal work time.  According to Dr. Gloria Mark’s research of thousands of information workers:

Who Interrupts You the Most?

And finally, if we want to save a big chunk of time, we must learn to manage our own internal interruptions.  Dr. Mark’s research showed that 44% of interruptions are internal interruptions.  That means they are initiated by us.   Examples of internal interruption are getting up and leaving the room, stopping to check an email, going to the bathroom, getting a snack, remembering something and stopping to attend to it, or someone walking by your office and intentionally stopping to talk to them, or just arbitrarily switching to another task.  In closing, interruptions are costing us in loss productivity, increased stress, and wasted time.  Some things we can change and some we can’t.  I suggest we start with the things we can change, ourselves!