Who Says Winning or Losing Are the Only Two Options?
In this dichotomous society we give the adventurous only two choices, win or lose. That means, to win, someone has to lose. No one likes to lose, so the majority just refuse to play at all and relegate themselves to the mundane, certain, boring, and less challenging pursuits in life. But you don’t have to play by those rules.
Write Your Own Rules
Define or redefine, or be defined! Write your own definition and rules! After all you have free will. You have choice. You are responsible for you! Some rules are advantageous to follow, but some are self-limiting. If the old rules are working for you, keep following them. If not, CHANGE them! I refuse to see myself as a loser! I choose to approach every new opportunity (race) as a new path to unlimited potential possibilities. I define anyone with enough faith in themselves to pursue their dreams or a challenging opportunity as already a winner! I define winning as any pursuits that open me up to new possibilities, (different ideas, new opportunities, new ways of thinking and being, diverse people, or new paradigms.) Now with that definition, I will always win and win big!
I’m Barbara Talley, The Poet who speaks and inspires. To find more about me, visit: www.thepoetspeaks.com