Part 2: Seven Steps to Keep from Getting Stuck in the Wrong Pot

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The natural order of things is that things are either growing (progressing) or dying (regressing).  I’ve learned a lot about growth by watching my plants grow, which lately, have been thriving.  As long as I water them and give them the appropriate amount of sunlight, protect them from stifling weeds, and put them in a pot that will allow them to grow, they flourish.  But, if I forget to water them, leave them without light, don’t pull the weeds, or don’t replace their pots when necessary, they slowly die.

We Are All Works In Progress

As I watch my young grandchildren grow, I am reminded that we are all works in progress.  Given the right tools, each divine creation will progress naturally.  Watch the grass, a plant, a tree, or the physical human body, they don’t strain to grow, they just grow.  But the human mind must be consciously, consistently, and carefully nurtured.  My youngest grandchild, just six months old and unable to speak but a few words, listens intently to every sound, carefully studies every face, knows who is familiar and unfamiliar, who to trust and who not to, and how to get his needs met.  The point is he started out a few months ago helpless and knowing very little but has been steadily growing stronger and smarter every day because he has the right environment.  He is in the right pot; he knows he is loved and his environment is stimulating (brightly colored educational toys, loving parents and family, healthy mother’s milk,  beautiful home, etc.)

To continue reading Part3 of Seven Steps to Keep From Outgrowing Your Pot, Are You in the Right Pot or Is Your Pot in the Right Spot? , click here  http://wp.me/ppImQ-h7

Barbara Talley is a workshop leader, keynote speaker, author, and publisher who speaks and writes on value-based living themes.

Part 1: Seven Steps to Keep from Getting Stuck in the Wrong Pot

Today’s question is, “Have you outgrown your pot?”  or “Is your pot in the right spot?” Let me explain.  Sometimes we don’t notice that we are stagnant because the process of growth is so gradual or the people around us and in the same pot as us enable or discourage us from rocking the boat.  The seed does not instantly become a tree, the mineral does not rapidly become a stone, and the human embryo does not reach perfection all at once.  We are designed to keep growing and growing, and growing.

To Stop Growing Is to Begin Dying

Although growth is a natural gradual process and requires patience, we must be clear, the goal is always to progress, to perfect ourselves, and to keep striving to become the best we can be.  No matter what our age or accomplishments to date are, no one should ever choose to ‘stop growing.’ That’s the point when we begin to die.

It Is Our Vision That Gives Us the Will To Keep Growing

Look around you, there are dead people everywhere, (vision-less, goal-less, and unhappy people).   The Bible states that, “Where there is no vision the people perish.”  It is our vision that gives us joy and the will to keep growing, striving, serving, and living.  Outgrowing your pot simply means that you are no longer growing, progressing, feeling like you are making a difference, or moving ahead. To continue reading Part 2 of Seven Steps to Keep From Outgrowing Your Pot, All Living Things Are Growing or Dying, click here http://wp.me/ppImQ-gS

Barbara Talley is a workshop leader, keynote speaker, author, and publisher who speaks and writes on value-based living themes.

A Leap of Faith Is Not Risky

What “risky” venture is exciting your senses or calling to you? Remember, it’s not considered a risk when you are stepping out on faith.  It is a risk when you are making fear-based decisions.  Faith is a much more powerful motivator than fear. What would you do if you knew you could not fail?   What dream is whispering to you now to not give up?

About a year ago, my sister called me to ask my advice on a life changing decision she had to make within 24 hours.  Her job of over 25 years had given her an ultimatum, move across the country to keep her job or be unemployed.  Together we weighed the pros and cons.  Of course it was a difficult decision to make in light of the current economy.  I thought she had decided to make the move.  My final words to her were to just make sure that her decision was faith-based instead of fear-based.  Those words must have resonated with her, because the next day she informed me that she was “stepping out on faith,” and remaining in her own home, familiar surroundings, and using the year of severance pay to finish her Masters Degree.

Take the Leap of Faith In Spite of Your Fears

Fear abounds everywhere so it may be harder to find people willing to encourage  or support you to take “a leap of faith.”   Everywhere people are telling you to take it easy. Don’t rock the boat.  But what if the boat is crowded, going no where, going in the wrong direction, or slowly sinking?  Do you just hold on until it sinks or start swimming now?

You May Have to Take Your Faith Walk Alone

2009 was an extremely challenging year for me.  I had tremendous pressures on me and at times could not see a way out, so I just prayed harder and held on.  I got by, so to speak, “on a wing and a prayer,” and “with a little help from my friends.”  I had to make some serious changes, set some new goals, and go into uncharted waters. At times I couldn’t get encouragement from my most trusted friends.  The economic times made them think about survival instead of thriving.   So I had to go within, and purely on faith, take my faith walk alone.  Jumping from the boat was scary and perhaps even risky, but I knew I had to be true to myself.  That meant continuing to hold on to my dreams and not giving up.

Barbara Talley is a speaker, author, and poet who speaks on the themes of vision, values, and virtues.  Her life mission is to help others live a more meaningful life.  For more info or to book Barbara to motivate your audience, check out her website.  www.thepoetspeaks.com

A New Day: A New Blessing

This morning as I watched the beautiful shades of pink, gray, and gold painted across the sky at sunrise, I couldn’t help but think of how blessed we are.  I felt grateful and remembered the Bible’s promise that “A grateful heart attracts blessings.”  The dawn of each new day symbolizes promise, order, wonder, and beauty.  Each new day is a gift holding within it unlimited possibilities to create, observe, appreciate, and serve.

I uttered my favorite dawn prayer from the Bahá’í Writings, “Illumine my inner being oh my God with the splendors of the dayspring of thy revelation, even as thou didst illumine my outer being with the morning light of thy favor.”

Prayer in the morning protects me and puts me on the right track.  The words of God awaken, open, and excite my heart and soul, the same way that the sunrise delights my physical eyes and humbles me.  I think to myself how blessed I am to be a human being, to have the potential to mirror the attributes and qualities of God, to be so valued and trusted that I have been given free will.  With this power, I can create or destroy, love or hate, believe or fear, take from others or serve them unselfishly.  I pause and feel at this moment that I am blessed and highly favored, just as every other person is.

So many people are asleep, or if awake, are too busy scurrying about to notice this wonderful gift of awe and beauty.  I’m in that same category some of the time myself.  But this morning, I stopped and recognized and acknowledged this daily gift from God and felt refreshed and privileged.  The sunrise is just the beginning of the gifts that the aware will notice throughout their day.  With each step we can appreciate the ability to move.  With each sound we can be grateful for our hearing.  With each smile we give and receive we can be thankful for our ability to touch others and feel their warmth and love.  With each thought we can be thankful for our ability to create new realities.  Haven’t we been taught that the reality of man is his thought?   With each word we can encourage others or depress or sadden them.  We can spread hope and joy or fear and doubt.  As humans, we have a choice, that’s what makes us human.  But, with this choice and blessing comes great responsibility.  We are here to grow, mirror the qualities of God,  and make things better.  Today is a wonderful new day and it’s ours to do as we wish.  I’m determined to make mine magnificent, what about you?

Barbara Talley is a professional speaker, poet, and author.  Her presentations focus on vision, values, and virtues.  You can find more about her programs at www.ThePoetSpeaks.com

Wild Oregano to The Rescue

This month’s health tip is on the spicy herb oregano.   I’d heard the hype on the radio. I purchased a book on the topic.  I’d even gone to Whole Foods to purchase the Wild Mediterranean brand mentioned.  Since I hadn’t finished my research, I hadn’t taken any.  Then a few nights ago after attending a late evening class, I began to get a tickle in my throat and started coughing.  The cough continued and began to interrupt my sleep.  It was so noticeable that my husband asked if I was okay, because rarely do I get sick.  After he brought me a glass of water, I remembered the wild oregano claim to cure coughs.   I immediately got up, put a few drops of the wild oregano under my tongue, put some Thieves oil on the bottom of my feet and went back to bed.  I haven’t coughed again ‘at all’ and that was four days ago.  I’m a believer!

Germicide, Fungicide, Antihistamine, oh my!

So, what ‘s so great about wild oregano?  Well quite frankly, the claims are too numerous to name.  According to Dr. Cass Ingram in his book, ‘The Miracle of Wild Oregano,’ Wild oregano is the most powerful herb, or rather, spice known.”  Researchers claim that it is one of the most powerful curative substances known to man and that it will cure things that other synthetic drugs can’t even touch.

Dr. Igram also boasts that, “Wild oregano is a powerful germicide, antioxidant, fungicide, antihistamine agent, and antitussive agent. The latter means that it can halt a cough.  It is also mucolytic, which means it dissolves mucous deposits.”   In addition he swears that it destroys, “bacteria, viruses, fungi, drug-resistant germs, and parasites.”  You’ve just got to check out all the things it can do for yourself.  It appears to handle whatever ails you!  And if any of you have a fungal infection, he has a protocol in the book to clear it without destroying your liver.  Yes, it has the same name as the  oregano you put in your pasta dishes, but its grown and  processed quite a bit differently.

Claims to Be the Strongest Antibiotic Known to Man

In addition, the Curing Herbs website  http://curingherbs.com/wild_oregano_oil.htm lists additional benefits of wild oregano oil, “Oil of Oregano, has been scientifically researched and proven to be one of the strongest and most effective broad spectrum antibiotics known to man. It is natural and safe to use. It will not create more mutant strains of bacteria. It effectively kills bacteria of every variety using only tiny amounts. It is also effective against fungus, parasites and viruses. It can be used externally and internally. There are no negative side effects. You need no prescription. It does not cost a fortune!”

If that’s not enough to get your interest, it also builds the immune system, kills internal parasites, is effective for colds, flu, shingles, herpes and warts.  And, because of its heating effects works as an effective pain killer.

Another website on health remedies http://www.homeremediesweb.com/oil_of_oregano_health_benefits.php shares how wild oregano helps  with skin infections, digestive disorders, and sinus infections.

As with all of my suggestions, check them out yourself.  Everything I mention, I’ve taken.  But you’ve got to do your own research.  You know the drill.  I am not a physician and can not prescribe anything to anybody.  Consult your physician, yadayadaya….

Barbara